Never getting out of Hell, Or so it seems

Well, we had some disappointing news today. Apparently the surrogate has cysts on her ovaries, thus leading us to believe that something had happened between her birth control pills and the Lupron to cause her to flare up. Seems to be some sort of miscommunication...between the clinic and the surrogate which leaves us in an uncomfortable position. We are not there to double check everything and have to go on what we are told.

Frustrating to say the least, that now our retrieval /transfer which was supposed to take place August 1st or so, is going to be pushed back for at least a month. That is if nothing else goes wrong. My husband is going to have a heart attack over it all. I'm trying to keep a level head, knowing that we have no control over any of it.

And that may be the hardest part. Giving up control.
I guess we wait and see.